Wednesday, April 22, 2009

ethical dilemma

Its a complicated thing!! LIFE. Its answers aren't easy. It brings you to face a two-way cross road many times in its course. However clear you are in your head which one you have to take, it gets complex when you clearly see that your life is not just yours. Your decision has manyfold impact on many of those linked/related to you. An impact, not actually in the real real sense or in a long run but at that moment.

You either give up and go with the external force and follow the path that makes everybody happy momentarily. but beware! Take it for granted that none of these people you just made happy will come at ur rescue when you are dealing with the outcomes of this action. You may however get reminders of how bad you were at it or how incapable you are while you will be struggling with another full set of your own worries all the way.

Or you stay with your inner voice. Do what you are comfortable doing. Follow the path your heart n mind wants you to. At least you will be convinved about it and dealing with whatever comes with it will be easier for you. But then you got to be ready to live with those unhappy well wishers of yours. Will that be easy? who knows...

Its a dilemma. You are tempted to go take the easier way but follow your heart you must, I say!! Or leave it for the time to decide... the later sounds easier...

6 comments:

Goofy Mumma said...

Profound! Nice read Tara, and thought provoking too. Indeed what would I do?

Solilo said...

Tara, I am going through similar thoughts as you must have read in my blog. Sometimes life throws you in such quandary that you really have no clear path or right path. I absolutely agree with this line. "Take it for granted that none of these people you just made happy will come at ur rescue when you are dealing with the outcomes of this action."

poppedonsunday said...

Any decision that's removed from usual attracts resistance. So start enjoying the resistance and follow your heart. Also time to time keep checking if this what you still want or its just your ego.

After writing 4 lines on this topic I feel like a ravana with 10 heads and each with independent Ideas.

Also I get the intuition that All mighty is standing some where and laughing at my state. So I decide to give this jigsaw puzzle back to him and let him demonstrate/ decide on how to sole it.
Enjoy

Crafty Shines said...

leave it to time is my fav option...am a nervous wreck about taking decisions when other ppl too have to share the impact....
*hugs of hope for tara*


i hereby name this month "the profound month"!!! is it just me, or has this month seen a lot of bloggers getting profound on their blogs??!! (me included, sigh)

logicalobscurity said...

I've been thinking all morning on what to reply. Couldn't think of much. Just wanna say that do what you think is right. In the end, you have to live with your decisions. Do what gives you peace.

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